Reconciled Hope Counseling, LLC

Expert mental health counseling in Chattanooga, TN. Offering couple's therapy, trauma counseling, addiction therapy, and OCD therapy, both in-person and via telehealth.

Stop having the same fight over and over—and finally feel like a team again.

I help couples break toxic patterns, rebuild trust, and reconnect without more arguing, shutting down, or walking on eggshells.

You’re not here because things are “a little off.”

  • You’ve had the same argument 100 times
  • One of you shuts down, the other escalates
  • You feel more like opponents than partners
  • You’re starting to wonder: “Is this just how it’s going to be?”

It’s not. But what you’re doing right now won’t fix it.


If you’re ready to begin:

My name is West Breedlove.

Wen you come to see me, we don’t just talk about problems—we map and break the cycle.

In our work, you will:

  • Identify your exact conflict pattern (push-withdraw, attack-defend, etc.)
  • Learn how to interrupt it in real time
  • Replace it with clear, actionable communication
  • Rebuild emotional and physical connection

My Services


1. Couples Therapy: For couples stuck in painful, repetitive conflict

2. OCD Treatment: Evidence-based therapy to break intrusive thought cycles

3. Men’s Work: For men who feel stuck, out of control, or disconnected from who they want to be

“The notion that you can’t love someone until you learn to love yourself is a fantasy… We learn to love ourselves precisely because we have experienced being loved by someone.”

Stan Tatkin

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